"we are not individuals who form relationships. We are social animals, deeply interpenetrated with one another, who emerge out of relationships."And listen to all of these lovely words he introduces us to:
Attunement: the ability to enter other minds and learn what they have to offer.
and correct for biases and shortcomings.
The conscious mind hungers for money and success, but the unconscious mind hungers for those moments of transcendence
when the skull line falls away and we are lost in love for another, the challenge of a task or
the love of God.
Basically, I want to have attunement, equipoise, metis, sympathy and limerence. I want to use my heart and my head when I view the world and other people. I want to balance logic and passion; skill and emotion; reason and feeling. These are integral aspects of who we are. We cannot see accurately without taking into account both the emotional and rational aspects of the world around us.